For our post today, we wanted to draw attention to Dougie’s comment on our post The Bullies Get Played :
LOL, nice to see I get a mention, all be it in a context that is totally wrong. Not that anyone on Amazon was actually interested in the facts of what happened with Matthew Fox.
But then again, they never are.
Keep up the good work guys. More and more people are finally realising what’s been going on and coming on board the anti-Troll bandwagon.
Dougie is right when he says that the public is wising up to the bullies and their notorious behavior. Why do we want to share this? Because we’ve been getting more and more messages like this one:
She says, “How long has it been now?” Meaning, how long has it been now that she has been silent, has left them alone, and is still being targeted and harassed. How long? For this particular author, about a year and a half, almost two years, in fact. This author and many others believed, because they were told by either their editors, or agents, or publishers, that if they ignored the bullies, then they would go away and leave them alone. Here’s the truth. It doesn’t matter if you ignore them or disappear or stop speaking out against them, they will never stop harassing you or attacking your books. Why? Because they live and love to harass other people.
We’re not saying that we recommend getting into it directly with them. No. Our advice on our Do’s and Don’t’s page, for those who are targeted is to NOT engage with them at all and we mean that. As Athena said, you can’t negotiate with terrorists.
So, you’re probably wondering, what then do you do? Simple. Ignore them and raise awareness of their behavior by sharing it with others. You can do this privately through email or PMs or you can start an anonymous blog or even share our blog with others. The more you pass around the information to others, the more the public will become aware of what is happening so that when someone is targeted, people will know that it’s bullies causing the problem and not the victim. This in turn will minimize the impact they have on their victims and eliminate the damage they cause.
Everyone got it? Good.
Now, moving on…
There are a couple issues that Athena wants me to clear up for our readers. One of them is that in no case have we ever or would ever say that shelving a book as a personal attack on an author is okay. Any attack on an author is decidedly NOT okay.
Got that, bullies? The fact that you think it’s okay is an unfortunate and moronic notion instilled in you by Patrick Brown and his band of moderators who allow this kind of crap on GR.
Another matter Athena asked me to clear up is our criteria for adding people to our BBG list. We created this list to warn others of the trolls they need to avoid when they are logged into Goodreads. We place someone on our list when we find or are given proof that they have participated in a bully attack on someone else, not because we just feel like adding them or because they speak out against us.
For example, here is a screenshot of celebrating the fact that she made our BBG list and KarlynP making one of her usual asinine, and totally erroneous, statements:
Well, Katie, we’re glad you’re excited about it, but unfortunately, you’re not a Badly Behaving Goodreads reviewer because to say that would imply that you’re a reviewer, which you’re not. Not according to the standards of your bully friends and not according to ours. According to the bullies, authors cannot be reviewers and as you’re an author, you cannot therefore be a real reviewer. According to us, you’re a BBG. Got that? A BBG, which stands for Badly Behaving Goodreader (not Badly Behaving Goodreads reviewer.) And no one with any kind of integrity takes BBGs seriously. Why? Simple. Because of your behavior.
In fact, the BBGs on our list are well known for getting booted off of other sites. Ours for one. Digital Book World for another. And the Passive Voice.
In fact, here is a screenshot of a commenter on TPV who was responding to a nasty comment Katie left (as author KT Grant) :
Unfortunately for Katie, Dawn knew that KT Grant was katiebabs. If you go to the link, you will see that Katie’s comment is no longer there. Why? Because Passive Guy removed it and booted her off of his site. If there is one thing that can be said about PG, it’s that he doesn’t put up with bully wank. Good for you, PG!
So, Katie, why have we placed you on our list? Well, not because of the fallacious argument made by KarlynP. We do not list people as BBG because they speak out against us. We list people who have been proven to bully others in the past. In your case, Katie, we were contacted by another author, an author who by the way is infinitely more talented and more successful than you and who sent us screenshots of a bully attack on her in which you not only participated, but led (we are not at liberty publish the screenshots or the author’s name per her request.) So you see, Katie, this is why you are on our list. Got it? And it doesn’t surprise us that you would assault an author who is more talented and more successful than you. This seems to be the norm with BBG who are authors.
To end our post, we wanted to let everyone know that Athena checked back on Eve Thomas and she said she is doing well. She asked us to share this message from her blog with our readers (the facebook page is ):
Worldwide Peaceful Meeting Day
Eve Thomas
27/02/2013 22:57:00
Hi Everyone,
I have a dream, a peaceful day when people unite around the world to make new friends but most of all to raise awareness to the many types of abuse that are sadly part of our everyday life.
As a survivor of domestic violence I want to join my tiny voice to the millions of others out there so we become #onevoice, #onevoice raising awareness to domestic violence, rape, child abuse, human trafficking, the list is endless.
Almost every day I see a new story breaking in the media, stories of historical sex abuse, victims of domestic violence, murder, rape, again the list is very sadly endless.
One in three women are affected by domestic violence, 2 women die every week, hundreds and thousands of children are living their childhoods surrounded by abuse – WHEN WILL IT STOP? WHEN WILL THE ABUSERS STOP?
I strongly feel that education and knowledge are the key. There are some wonderful organisations/charities and people out there, link minded people who only want to help, their sole wish to perhaps feel at peace even if it is only for a short while.
Whilst conversing with a fellow tweeter my dream suddenly seemed real and so #worldwidepeacefulmarch day was born.
My dream is for people to meet in every town, in every city, in every country of the world and join their voices to raise awareness to all types of abuse. This could also be a very valuable opportunity to raise money for charities etc – I’m thinking something similar to Comic Relief where individuals/small groups/organisations etc organise fund raising activities and then donate the money to the charity of their choice.
THIS DREAM CAN BECOME A REALITY. I never thought I would ever be a survivor but here I am, standing tall and shouting from the rooftops. PLEASE JOIN ME, PLEASE HELP MY DREAM BECOME A REALITY THIS REALLY COULD BE EPIC IF WE ALL #STANDTOGETHER AS #ONEVOICE.
The date for #worldwidepeacefulday was original set as the 27th July but after consulting with the Director of FortAlice today she pointed out that this falls in the peak holiday season. If anyone has any suggestions as to a date please get in touch, I can be reached by email or you can leave a comment below. I am thinking the last Saturday in June as that would also give me time to put the finishing touches to the Fifty Shades Of Grey book, the book of survivors stories which I would like to release worldwide on the same day as #worldwidepeacefulmarch day. There is still time to send in your stories, you really are a brave lot and I am sending each and everyone of you a big hug.
Stay safe and remember SURVIVORS NOT VICTIMS.
Eve x