Below is a post we published on July 20, 2012. It is our coverage of Wendy Darling and the attack she led on Kiera Cass. Remember in Apology Not Accepted when we mentioned the other case where an author’s apology wasn’t accepted? Well, this is it.
Over a year ago, Kiera Cass’s agent made a mistake and when Kiera saw the damage, she tried to reach out to the injured parties and apologize. She was completely ignored and then Wendy sent in the brute squad to wage a hate campaign against her. Check out the clipping we took from Wendy’s blog post toward the end. That screenshot says it all.
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Real name: Mimi G.
Category: Godmother (of the GR bullies)
Level of Toxicity: DEFCON 1, Maximum Alert
We weren’t really sure where to begin with Wendy Darling as there has been so much already written about her and her infamous review of The Selection. Fortunately, Stitch found a terrific website called The Goodreads Follies (an informative site we highly recommend.) There, he found two posts on Wendy: Reviewer Wendy Darling Joins the Fray and Reviewer Wendy Darling – Part 2. These two posts document thoroughly the events that occurred back in January:
Today’s reviewer is . She posted a of by . The review seemed well-written to us. We haven’t read the book, so we can’t say whether we agree with it or not.
Let’s start with the most clear case of over-reacting: the one on (which her review on GR links to). An anonymous commenter writes, “You gave such a bad review for a book you didn’t even read all the way though??? Well, I did read the entire book and it was absolutely, positively, wonderful!!!!” Wendy’s first response is polite, and she’s in the comments thread on the GR version of the review. We applaud that.
The anonymous commenter continues with, “I thoroughly enjoyed this book and await for the next one with anticipation. But, like you say, I’m entitled to my opinion and you to yours. I do hope that people don’t dismiss a good read based only on your opinion though, it was well worth the read. Are you an Author?” Pretty obvious where this silliness is headed, yes? One red herring complaint from some over-sensitive authors is that someone gave a book a bad review because they are jealous competing authors.
Wendy gets snippy in return, “…it’s very hard to have a conversation with someone who seems to be very insistent upon making sure her opinion is known on someone else’s review. …”. While we acknowledge that Anonymous was being stupid, Wendy’s response seems to indicate that she is not open to discussion of her reviews.which is a hair’s breadth away from the lately-cropped-up attitude on GR that anyone who questions a reviewer’s review is either an author or a troll. And that’s the attitude that has us so annoyed.
Anonymous can’t leave well enough alone and has a final parting shot, “… I’m going away now and not coming back because I’m having a hard time having a conversation with someone who is a Disney Character.” Commeter Cillian decides to feed the troll (remember this name; she’ll most likely be the subject of a future post). Then another anonymous commenter then jumps to the conclusion that the first anonymous is really the author and that those silly comments constitute bullying. This comment is even more offensive to us. As we’ve said many times before, really bullying is serious and calling a couple of silly comments on a blog post “bullying” trivializes it.
Back on the GR review, Wendy to a Twitter conversation between Kiera Cass and Elena Roth, who is later revealed to be Ms. Cass’s agent. Ms. Roth is upset about the order in which reviews are posted on a book’s GR page because (we think) that Wendy’s was the first review. Ms. Cass initially dismisses Ms. Roth’s complaint. Ms. Roth goes on to call Wendy (assuming hers is the review in question) a bitch and says that she went in and “liked” the positive reviews. Ms. Cass says that she may also like the positives, then moves on another topic.
And the reviewer crowd goes wild! Highlights include:
Hannah Joy remarkably hypocrisy, by calling Ms. Roth a “piece of shit” (in our opinion, this is worse than “bitch”).
Julianna Ms. Cass of calling Wendy a “bitch”, even though Ms. Cass didn’t.
Sharon the author is immature…for what we’re not sure.
Chelsea Ms. Cass for Ms. Roth’s words. Sans the author of “asshattery” for comments that Ms. Roth – not the author! – made. .
Reviewer The Holy Terror, one of the worst of the whingers, , “… it’s really, really dumb of Cass to act like this.” Like what? Ms. Cass wasn’t the one throwing around the epithets.
Ace’s comment is for misusing the term “bullying”.
Stephanie because she (Ms. Cass) actually found some good humor in the early version of Wendy’s review. Liking a review is tasteless?
And the comments continue. We can’t continue to read and post because the exaggerations, lack of reading comprehension, and general nastiness on the part of many commenters is extremely tiring.
A quick review of Twitter also shows that Jane Litte of DearAuthor has once again commented on this matter. She accuses Ms. Cass of trying to “jigger” the ratings and “down vote” a negative review. Sorry, Ms. Litte, GR doesn’t allow you to “down vote”. The most intellectually disturbing comment by Ms. Litte is where she implies that . You know what, people don’t automatically lose their right to have an opinion simply because they know and like an author. Anti-free-speech much?
If you read both posts, you will get all the details. The only problem with them is that many of the links they provide no longer work. The content has since been removed. Why? Because Wendy and the bullies are masters at covering their tracks. Wendy herself is highly skilled at playing the victim and making herself look good so that she can come out of things smelling like a rose. Does she smell like a rose? Hmm, let me think about that … uh, no.
After this episode, Wendy sent in the thugs to terrorize Kiera. This is why we call her the Godmother, because she doesn’t actually do the dirty work herself. She sends in the ringleaders and the minions to do it for her.
Under all the pressure, Kiera contacted Wendy to apologize and also had her agent contact Wendy as well to issue her formal apology. And what does Wendy do? Does she forgive and forget? Does she even respond to Kiera? Absolutely not. She completely ignores her (screencap from Wendy’s blog):
But wait! There’s more! Since Wendy has contacts at Publisher’s Weekly and has written for them before:
She pitched them a story that eventually became this PW article which resulted in a vicious hate campaign launched against Kiera. Since then, Kiera has not heard the end of it. People are still attacking her, like Ashamed Of You on one of :
To which Kiera responded:
So you see, Kiera has been trying to contact Wendy for a long time, telling her how sorry she is for the whole affair even when it wasn’t Kiera who insulted Wendy in the first place. Wendy has not forgiven her but instead has completely ignored her, even admitting to it. Then, she sends in her thugs to terrorize and wage a hate campaign against her.
So, you tell us. Who is the monster here and who is the victim?
As far as we’re concerned, Kiera Cass is the nicest, kindest, most generous person you will ever meet and she never deserved to be vilified.
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I’m SO glad you posted about Wendy Darling! She is one of the worst. She puts the capital letter in Bully. One of the nastiest, meanest trolls around. So many authors have been harmed by her, both personally and professionally, that it’s not even funny.
I’m with you on that one, Blazin’ Saddlebags. I remember when she stalked Kiera’s twitter and had all of her friends do the same. That was when the whole attack on Kiera began. She’s a snake, this one.
How can these people deny that they are bullies??? They followed an Author from Goodreads to Twitter to Amazon leaving spiteful & hateful comments. NEWSFLASH: THAT IS BULLYING! If they don’t call this bullying than what do they call their behaviour???
Also following an author (or anyone) from Goodreads to Twitter to Amazon and leaving hateful comments is STALKING! That is a FACT!!! These bullies accuse STGRB of stalking people, but that is so obviously a LIE because the STGRB blog is here on the internet for everyone to read. Can anyone see any stalking behaviour from the STGRB blog??? The answer is NO!!! This blog doesn’t have a STGRB account on Goodreads or Amazon. STGRB stay in their own space and they don’t leave nasty comments in other peoples spaces.
The bullies on Goodreads are vile, but sometimes I think that the bullies on the Amazon forums are even worse! I nearly fell off my chair yesterday when STGRB announced that Zahara on Goodreads calls herself Anna Karenina on the Amazon Forum!!!! So it seems that the the bullies on GR and Amazon are the very same people! Do they never get worn out from bullying so many people on so many different sites??? Do they honestly think that they are ALWAYS right and everyone else is ALWAYS wrong???
Also I have a suspicion that Anna Karenina has multiple troll accounts on Amazon. This is not something that I can prove or even something that I can be 100% certain of. But from reading comments on that horrendous BBA thread I’m fairly sure that at least three of the trolls are Anna Karenina! Its the way she writes, the things she says, the times that these same people are on line, the way when someone stands up to her her bullying behaviour that suddenly these other two trolls appear to defend her, as if by magic! There is another reason why I think that Anna Karenina has multiple troll accounts, it is the most obvious of all! But I’m not going to say what it is because that would bring her attention to it and she would change it and cover it up! But anyone who has a good look will notice something very obvious about a certain three troll accounts on Amazon! 😉 This seems to be a problem with ALL of the bullies, they all have multiple Goodreads & Amazon accounts. So there appears to be loads of them, when in fact there is only a handful of these socially inept people.
As for Wendy Darling, thankfully I haven’t come across her much. Does she use that same name on GR? She certainly comes across as a nasty bully in these screen shots! Why do these people want to hurt so many people??? They must get some sort of a buzz out of it! I don’t know how the can sleep at night, I really don’t.