Category: Abuse


When it comes to a story like Fifty Shades of Grey, it’s not unexpected that there will be a tremendous dividing line in terms of those who enjoy it and those who don’t. Regardless of how one may feel about the tale, the author, EL James, is a woman deserving of the same respect as any other person.

Recently, EL James hosted a twitter chat, #AskELJames, and guess who was leading the wolf pack that attacked her?

That’s right, folks!  None other than Jenny Trout, the notorious bully who sabotaged an author’s book by telling her friends and fans to pirate it and get it taken down from online bookstores because she claimed it was racist and violent toward women of color, only to realize later on that the author was a woman of color herself.

Yeah, remember that?  Well, now she and the known misogynist tabloid website The Mary Sue, have begun a harassment campaign on twitter to attack James.

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Navigating to the Tweets in question reveals mostly personal attacks, body shaming, referring to the author as a “cunt,” etc.

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Regardless of how you may feel about the books, the author is still a human being, and everyone has the option not to read them. Ultimately, if one fact should be noted above all others, it’s this: E.L. James is one of the few women to strike it rich off her writing and build her own empire in a male-dominated economy, and she is being singled out for ridicule. It’s appalling that whenever a woman rises up in this world, and people like Jenny Trout or the Mary Sue do their best to take them back down.

By promoting this harassment against her, the Mary Sue and Jenny Trout are explicitly endorsing the degradation of her as both a human being and a woman.

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Edit: We just received from a blog reader.  Apparently, there are many people out there in cyberspace who agree with us:

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Well said, David!

The link to the article he is referring to is here.

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We received an email today about this book pirating website.  Several authors told us they were able to remove their books successfully without anything affecting their computers.  Others, who tried to download free books to test the site told us that this is a phishing website.  Therefore we have removed the link.  We want everyone to be aware that there are many sites like these on the internet and to be extremely careful when you find one.

Our original post is below.

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Authors beware!  Unfortunately, with the huge success of indie-publishing comes websites like this that spring up and pirate authors’ books.  Books Online is one of them:

BookOnlineBut don’t fret!  It is easy to have your book removed.  Just do a search for your book’s title and click it when it appears.  In the top right, there is a black flag that you can click to remove your book.  When finished, it will be removed instantly.

Thank you, Anon, for the tip on this site.  If any of our readers find sites similar to this one, please contact us and let us know.

This saddens us more than any other news we get on our site.  When we see bullying online to this degree, it reminds us that bullying cannot be ignored.  This mentality of “ignore the bully and he will go away.”  Sorry, it just doesn’t work.

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Gaming the System

We were given this screenshot today of an Amazon customer who gets offended when authors write series.  So instead of waiting until a series is written and finished before starting it, guess what this person does?  Buys the book, reads it, and returns it for a refund.  Oh, and after a year, when Amazon has disabled the account’s refund option, this person just opens a new account.  This is typical bully mentality.  Their solution when they become unhappy is to steal books from authors.  We urge our readers that whenever they see something like this, to report it to Amazon asap.

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Today we are sharing with you a very sad story.  Unfortunately, it’s a story we’ve seen before and it is something that happens when bullies take their bullying too far.  It’s about a boy in Ireland who committed suicide after being bombarded with abusive messages from online cyber-bullies.  After his death, his mother urged these sites to provide the police with the identities of the abusers so they could be held accountable for their actions.

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Because we’ve seen this before, we urge all parents who have teenagers to keep watch over what is happening in their social media accounts.  Please don’t let your child become a victim of online abuse.

In our last post, A Story of Real Author Bullying, we showed you a case of genuine bullying as opposed to the case of Sarah Daltry who cried bully.  In this post, we want to talk about the other author Mercy Pilkington featured in her article The Bullies Win: Authors Abandoning Publishing Over Online Behaviors, Nadine Christian.

In her final blog post, Nadine described what happened to her and presented evidence of the nasty emails and messages she received from online trolls.  She also had long conversations with both Mercy and Anne Rice, telling both women what she went through and why she’s quitting:

If being in the public eye led to that sort of vicious — and obvious stalking — was it worth continuing? I love to write, but would putting my work out there be worth the heart ache? The reaction I feel deep down every time I open an email from someone I’m not sure of was starting to give me stomach pains.

She wasn’t bluffing.  She did quit.  If you click on her blog post link, you’ll find this:

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All we have to say about Nadine’s story is that it’s incredibly sad.  We do, however, have a great deal of respect for Passive Guy’s thoughts on it:

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Now, what about Sarah, who claimed over and over in her posts that she was closing up shop and shutting down?  Has she removed her books or her blog?

Nope.

Not only are her books still up in the online bookstores, her blog is still up, only it’s been privatized:

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Of course, this doesn’t surprise any of us.

Charlotte’s Law

In response to the tragic death of Australian celebrity, Charlotte Dawson, friends of the celebrity have created a petition called Charlotte’s Law — Tougher Cyber Bully Legislation that calls on the Australian government to pass tougher laws that will crack down on cyber bullying:

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We extend our sympathies to anyone who suffers from depression the way Charlotte did.  For those in Australia, there is help.  From the article, we screen grabbed information about a suicide prevention hotline:

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For Americans, you will want to go here:

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If any of our readers have information for hotlines in other countries, please feel free to leave that information in the comments section of this post.

Before we go, we’d like to share this fantastic article Jaq D. Hawkins wrote on this issue of depression and cyber bullying called .

We’d like to end with an image we found that best describes STGRB’s stance on how to deal with trolls and bullies online:

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As one of our blog readers put it:

Walk away. Don’t feed the troll. Don’t interact. Don’t let them infect you with their disease.

Don’t let their hatred into your hearts.  Walk away and report them.  If we all work together to put pressure on governments and online social media companies, we may just see a change for the better.

We are very sad to report that Charlotte Dawson, a victim of online Twitter bullying has passed away.  In , it says:

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In another article in the Sydney Morning Herald, Twitter came under fire for not taking necessary measures to eradicate bullying on their site:

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They are right to criticize Twitter for not signing up to the federal governement’s complaint handling scheme.  We feel that this requirement should extend not only to Twitter, but also to Goodreads, Amazon, and any other online social networking site where trolls and bullies roam free.  We feel that our government needs to start taking more action against the people who bully others online for the sheer pleasure of it (see New Study on Trolling).

And if you don’t believe that there is bullying of this magnitude on Goodreads and Amazon, just take a look at our posts on the Amazon Fora Trolls or our post covering the attack on Lauren P.  Or better yet, just read the screenshots below that we took from GR.

In this one, a reviewer tells Jamie McGuire to “kindly kill” herself:

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And in this one, a GR member says that the “only good author is a dead author”:

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Online bullying is real and it affects thousands of people everyday, whether they’re authors, celebrities, or kids in school.  It needs to be stopped.

A while ago, we posted a link on our sidebar to Anne R. Allen’s Laws of the Amazon Jungle.  Just recently she has revised it and renamed it, Laws of the Cyberian Jungle, so that it incorporates not just the dangers of Amazon, but all dangerous venues in “Cyberia”.

We feel that ALL authors should read her post as it provides invaluable advice that will save many authors from falling victim to the same dangers as others have in the past:

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Also, hiring blog tour companies or other third party organizations that distribute your books to readers is okay, too.  Many independent authors do this and it is an acceptable part of the business.

Rule #4 below is very important.  We’ve seen too many authors get baited into responding to nasty reviews and when that happens, it only gets worse for the author.  The trolls attack and the author ends up fighting back and it usually turns into a public lynching.  Please read The Bully MO for more information.

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If you don’t believe that trolls are drunk with their own rage, please read up on the New Study on Trolling.

Rule #7 is also very important.  Anne tells us what places online to avoid.  We think she is spot on.

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New Attack on Hugh Howey

Why do we say new attack on Hugh?  Because back in April, Hugh was attacked by a throng of bully reviewers for something he wrote about on his blog.  This time, he is being targeted by the same troll who was banned from Goodreads and who attacked Melissa Foster on his blog called ZoneAlert, claiming that she bought reviews to boost her sales.  Now, the same thing is being said of Hugh:

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We want all of our readers to know that this is FALSE INFORMATION.  The person who writes this blog makes outrageous claims against very successful authors and provides absolutely no evidence to validate them.  We want to warn our readers about this person and let everyone know that he is a fraud.  Please pass the word on.

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Addendum

We now know that the person who is behind this fraudulent website is an author who was kicked off of Goodreads for faking reviews.  He is a failed author who is taking his revenge out on other authors who are more successful than he is.  We learned this information from the authors who were targeted.

Here is a screenshot of Hugh and his thoughts on this fraudulent website:

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