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Gavin Hetherington Apologizes

We wanted to let our readers know that Gavin Hetherington just recently contacted us to thank us for setting the record straight regarding the “Gavin the thief” fiasco.  If you all remember, a blog reader left a link on our blog weeks ago about a Gavin Hetherington in the UK, living very near Gavin the author, who stole money from an old woman.  Suspicious that it might be the same Gavin, we stated on our blog that we would do some digging to find out the truth.  After a bit of research, we discovered that Gavin the author and Gavin the thief were two completely different people.  Apparently, Gavin the author hadn’t seen our post on this when we published it. Gavin also apologized for any wrongs he may have done or any hurt he may have caused anyone.  Because of this, we have removed from public view the two posts we published on him, here and here.  We leave them as a record and will only allow viewing upon special request.  We are, however, leaving up our four part series Once Upon a Time in the Land of BookLikes to show what the bullies did to him.  This story we feel is important for illustrating to our readers how quickly the bullies will take a false claim, utterly destroy an author with it, and then blame other people (like us) when they find out they were mistaken. Gavin gave us permission to post his email to us: GavinsEmail Thank you for contacting us, Gavin, and good luck.

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An addendum

Below is a screenshot of a comment by KarlynP left on Gavin’s recent BL post explaining that he sent us the above email.  We are posting it to show people how easily the bullies lie and end up believing their own lies much like the time they thought Google had blocked us.  Remember that?

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We have one word to describe your comment here, Karlyn: BULLSHIT.  We are calling you on your bullshit.  You need to get your facts straight, sweetheart.  But of course that always seems to be too difficult for you, doesn’t it?  There was no blood on our hands and you know it.  We don’t know who left the link to the article on our blog nor on Shelby’s and we certainly didn’t call Gavin a thief.  Nor did we “make” Shelby accuse him of thievery.  She did that entirely on her own.  What we said was that the two Gavins could be the same person and that we would do some digging to find the truth.  Well, guess what.  We found the truth and we posted it for the sole purpose of clearing Gavin’s name.  Why did we do that?  Because your friend, Shelby, and her minions smeared him throughout the ENTIRE blogosphere.  They were wrong and they owe him an apology.  And we have yet to see that apology given.

Authors, Please Never Do This

Recently, we promised one of our blog readers we would give an example of something an author should never do.  This is it.  Below is a perfectly legitimate review done by a well-known review site and following, is the author’s response to it (we’ve purposefully kept the name of the site and the author anonymous).

Please, authors, don’t ever do this:

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No.  Just no.  If a reviewer, especially a reviewer involved in a blog tour, writes a review that is this professional, don’t ever do what this author did.  This review was not a bully review (i.e. a review that personally attacks the author or is written for revenge).  This review was also not mean-spirited in any way.  The reviewer simply wrote what he/she thought of the book.  That is not bullying.

Edit: Also, in this particular case, the author experienced a huge backlash from this, which we don’t condone either.  Bullying an author for a mistake like this is wrong,  but it does happen.  We’ve seen it happen over and over.  This is why we’re warning our readers and giving them an example of what not to do.

There has been some debate over whether reviews are for readers only or for authors or both.  STGRB has stated our opinion on the matter both here and here.  In general, we agree that reviews are for readers, but there are a few fine points to be considered (see conversation linked above).

We may be doing some more posts on this topic in the future, but in the meantime, we have several posts planned for next week, a few of them, requests by some of our blog readers.

So stay tuned.

We were contacted just recently by an author (we will call Anon) who was bullied last year.   She wanted us to pass along this message to those who bullied her:

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This author also let us know that she will be releasing a new book this year.  To this author, all we have to say is:

That’s the spirit, Anon!  Don’t let the bullies tear you down or stop you!  Keep making great art!

And to all those STGRB haters out there, we say:

Cheers!  Be patient.  So much more is coming.

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Because the bullies are so obsessed with our site, they monitor it 24/7 and they’ve started on Amazon dedicated to it.

Gosh, we’re so flattered!

If you visit , you’ll see them plotting, calculating, and formulating plans within plans within plans about how they’re going to bring about our demise:

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Note: Alison Black is a sock account, btw, and we pretty sure we know who’s sock it is.

Anyhow, you’ll see them making claims about how horrible we are — how we bully them, call them names, tell lies about them, kick puppies, steal from children, beat the elderly and so on and so on, blah, blah, blah — starting whatever rumor they can think of next.  But the rumor they started today was so hysterically funny, we had to share it with you.

Okay so…  a little background about what happened.  The other day, one of our members was in our Google dashboard, checking the site stats.  Because she had a dodgy wireless mouse, she accidentally clicked the link that deleted our site’s url from the Google index without knowing it.  We didn’t know it had happened until today when we started receiving messages from our blog readers, telling us they couldn’t find our site because it wasn’t appearing in the Google search engine (btw, everyone, it’s easy to bookmark a website in your browser, there is usually an icon for that in the url toolbar).  When we heard about this, we checked Google webmaster and sure enough, the url was gone.  So, we fixed it and within a couple hours, our site was searchable again.

So, how did the bullies react?

Well, they went into a crazed frenzy with cries of “Extra!  Extra!  Read all about it!  STGRB blocked by Google!”  And we just sat back with our popcorn, or for some of us, our glasses of wine, and laughed and laughed and laughed.

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It all :

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And then what happened?  Well…

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And then…

They took it to BookLikes and blogged and reblogged:

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And then…

Onto Goodreads:

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And finally…

*drumroll*

is where they found out our site was back and realized that they had duped themselves into believing their own ridiculous rumor:

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Hilarious!!!

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So… why are we telling you about all this?  Simple.  Because we want to show you how quickly (and easily) these bullies can start a rumor, believe their own lie, and then spread it around the internet within minutes, preaching it as if it were a fact.

Pretty amazing, isn’t it?

And this isn’t the first time they’ve made complete fools of themselves.  They did this when we changed hosting companies and also when our site was down one weekend last winter (for an hour in the middle of the night!) when our hosting company was in the middle of a server maintenance.  In fact, they do this kind of thing whenever we do anything like cough or sneeze.  It’s rather amusing.

We’d like to claim that we set this whole thing up as a joke, but alas, we did not.  It was an honest mistake on our part, but after much reflection over it, we’ve come to the conclusion that the bullies’ lives are so miserable (hence the source of their need to hurt other people), we can honestly say we actually felt good about giving them just a little bit of happiness today…

Even if it was short-lived.

See, bullies, we can be nice.

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